​【原声视界】Day 90 大学“过来人”给你最中肯的建议

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大学“过来人”给你最中肯的建议

last semester of college I was like, well, this is it.

大学最后一个学期，我就想着，好吧，这就结束了

College isn't about being popular. It's about being yourself and finding people who wouldn't want you to be anyone else.

大学里不是说要变得多受欢迎。而是要做自己，找到能欣赏你独特魅力的人

Spend time building those relationships because as an adult you have to try really hard.

花时间建立人际关系，因为在成人的世界里，交朋友很难

Join as many clubs as possible, because you're not going to have an opportunity like that outside of college.

多参加社团，因为一旦走出校园，这样的机会就没有了

I wish I knew in college to take more classes that I'm curious and interested in.

我真希望我当年念大学时能多修些课，自己好奇并感兴趣的课

And the more you take your time for yourself, you'll discover what you want to do, and where you want to go in life.

和自己相处时间越多，你就越会发现你想做的是什么，人生的方向在哪里

Do everything you can in those four years. And if you take five, don't feel bad.

在这四年里，多尝试。哪怕要五年才毕业，用平常心去面对

Definitely do internships in college. Like do ten if you can.

在大学里，一定要去实习。如果可能的话，做十份实习都不为过

If you graduate with a certain degree or a certain major, it doesn't necessarily mean that you have to go into that field.

如果你以某个专业或学位毕业，这并不意味着你必须从事那个的领域的工作

Don't be afraid to have crazy ambitious career goals, because if you don't dream that no one else is going to dream for you.

不要害怕制定看似遥不可及的职业目标，因为如果你都没有梦想，其他人更不会替你造梦

Sometimes in college you want people to be a certain way, so you try to change people.

有时在大学里，你希望周围的人言行举止符合你的预期，所以你试图改变他们

You have to try and let go of that negative energy and just keep the people in your life who are really adding to it not detracting from it.

你必须摒弃负能量，并维系和那些传递正能了的人的关系，远离负能量的传播者

Talk it out even though it sucks, because the sooner you talk about it the sooner the problems done and then you can focus on other things.

坦白表达，尽管有时感觉很糟，因为你越早说出来，问题就会越快得到解决，然后你可以专注于其他事情

Just take a deep breath, because there's gonna be a lot bigger things in life that you're gonna have to worry about.

深呼吸，因为以后的生活里真正要你担心的事情会比这个严重的多

College is not just about finding what you're good at career-wise, it's also about finding yourself. When people ask you what your experience was, share it.

大学不仅仅是为了找到你在职业方面擅长的事情，也是为了发现自我。当人民问到你的生活经历，大方地分享吧

Something that I really got out of college was making lifelong friends, because those will be the people that will be attending your wedding in the future and that'll be there when you need help.

我在大学收获到的最珍贵的就是一辈子的好朋友，因为那些人就是将来会来参加你婚礼的人，当你需要帮助，也会帮你一把的人。

Don't compromise yourself at your core, like kind of stick to your guns, and stay true to yourself. That's the most important thing.

在你认为最重要的问题上不要妥协，坚持到底吧，不忘初心。这是至关重要的

If there's something you want to do and you even have a sliver of doubt, just do everything possible, because you're not going to have this chance again.

如果你有什么想做的事情，哪怕对它有一丝丝怀疑，也要尽一切可能去实现，因为你不会再有同样的机会了

Take your things as they come. There is no rulebook, there is no set plan. Whatever you think is necessary, just do you.

机会来了，要把握住/人生没有什么所谓的规则手册，也没有什么既定方案。只要你觉得行，就放手去做。