"I find it funny when people complain about 'difficult people'. I feel like my whole life has been focused on how to work best with 'difficult people'. It’s my professional moat. In my experience, all truly capable people are difficult in some way. Deal with it!”
我发现当人们抱怨“难相处的人”时挺有趣的。我觉得我的一生都在专注于如何与“难相处的人”最有效地合作。这是我职业上的护城河。根据我的经验,所有真正有能力的人都在某些方面难以相处。要学会应对这种情况!
1. I find it funny…. 我觉的…很搞笑
e.g. I find it funny that the person who always talks about punctuality is the last one to arrive.
e.g. I find it funny how you say you don’t like sweets, but you’re the first to dive into dessert.
2. complain about/whine about 抱怨
e.g .He often complains about the slow internet connection in the office.
e.g. I need to complain about the service at that restaurant. It was terrible.
e.g. She keeps whining about how tired she is, but she won’t go to bed early.
e.g. He’s been whining about the weather all day. It’s just a little rain!"
3. difficult people 很难应对很对相处的人
e.g. I try to avoid spending too much time with difficult people like her. It's just too draining.
e.g. Working in customer service, you have to know how to handle difficult people.
4. feel like 感觉+doing/句子/名词
e.g. I don’t feel like cooking tonight. Let’s order in.
e.g. Do you feel like watching a movie?
e.g. I feel like I’m getting a sore throat.
e.g. I feel like I need some time alone.”
5. professional moat 职业护城河
e.g. My deep understanding of data analysis is my professional moat. It’s what sets me apart from others.
e.g. My ability to build strong client relationships is my professional moat. It keeps me ahead in the industry.
6. deal with it 接受现实吧(诉别人面对某种情况时要采取积极的态度,或者在某个难以改变的情况面前,要学会适应或接受)
e.g. The work hours are set, and complaining won’t change anything. Deal with it.
e.g. I did my best, and if they don’t appreciate it, that’s their problem. Deal with it.